عصر حاضر میں تربیتِ اولاد : اسوۂرسول کی روشنی میں

Parenting in the Modern Era: In the Light of the Prophet's Example

Authors

  • Hafiz Munir Ahmad Cheema M.Phil. Scholar, University of Sialkot, Sialkot.
  • M. Akbar Ali Phil Scholar, University of Sialkot, Sialkot.
  • Saba Tufail Phil Scholar, University of Sialkot, Sialkot.

Keywords:

Parents, Bringing up, Children Character, Prophet's Example Modern Age.

Abstract

Allah has created limitless blessings for human being in this universe and he cannot count these blessings. As parents are blessing for the offspring similarly offspring is also a great blessing for parents. It is responsibility of parents to take serious steps for their education. There are lot of verses of Holy Quran and Hadith on this topic. Since the creation of the universe, i.e, from Adam till dated, every parents wished that their offspring where pious, well nourished, and provided with the facilities of the world , so that he would live a life of a good citizen. It is a fact that a child is a diamond, as it is sharpened, it gets that shape. It is the delimma of the day that parents themselves are so busy that they could not spend time with their children as they need. Rather parents themselves throw their children into the lap of social media and do not care to know what their child is watching and doing. Today’s modern mothers take resort of mobile phones and T.V cartoons for making their child eat something. Now its very much essential to know what the responsibilities are the head of the family and society. Children are like blank paper, it’s up to parents and grown-up what color they draw on them the biggest problem regarding the bringing up the children is blind adherence of west. We follow west in almost all aspects of life so consequently we could not get success of our own. West is negating morality so East is following them. We have never thought how much this blind adherence is harmful. After this, man is compelled to think about the factors which are hindering in the way of bringing up the children. Then he realizes that he as parent is far away from Holy Quran, Hadith and the company of his parents. If we want to get success in this world and the world hereafter then we have to follow Rasool (PBUH), as he (PBUH) is the amalgam model for us in all our matters. How much he (PBUH) loved the Muslim children as well as non-Muslim children. How he (PBUH) trained them, motivated them for Islam. It was that time when daughters were put into graves alive. It was training of Rasool (PBUH) that they got enlightened. Once stated by Hazrat Ayesha (R.A) that once a villager asked Rasool (PBUH)” Do you kiss children? We do not” Rasool (PBUH) replied “Allah has withdrawn love from you that I can do now”. More books will consult on the subject, the importance of bringing up of children will be emphasized, what can be its effects.

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Published

13-09-2024

How to Cite

Hafiz Munir Ahmad Cheema, M. Akbar Ali, & Saba Tufail. (2024). عصر حاضر میں تربیتِ اولاد : اسوۂرسول کی روشنی میں : Parenting in the Modern Era: In the Light of the Prophet’s Example. INKISHAF, 4(13), 152–173. Retrieved from https://inkishaf.org/index.php/home/article/view/490

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